Oh my goodness, I saved and waited for 15% off for this ring and I finally got it! It is beautiful and I am so happy! Tried the smaller version and it wasn't grand enough. The five carat is a whopper and blinding. I wanted bling without the fuss of the engagement ring. I don't like how they get caught on things. I wanted a fabulous band. It definitely says married and that he really loves me.17 years as military wife, 3 boys, and two dogs, I love my life but I earned it. What's great is he thought so too.